In sex, you are really [just] in a relationship with yourself

In love, … the other is enough in itself …: you … make him or her exist with you, as he or she is.

Badiou (via alterities)
  • Reader: Dear Mr. Snicket, What is the best way to keep a secret?
  • Lemony Snicket: Tell it to everyone you know, but pretend you are kidding.